How to make a guy fall In love with you! Hmmmmm………….
Hello ladies and a very warm welcome to my site, How to make a guy fall in love with you! Well as I am certain you are realizing now there isn’t a surplus of eligible guys who are desperate to get hitched at the moment. As we have guessed however there are, like, fourteen thousand reasons, excuses, physical and mental disruptors why this is the case. You see, guys are trained from their early teens to avoid marriage at all costs. Social pressure from their peers encourages them to play the field for a while. And just when they are warming up alongside you on the couch, Desperate Housewives comes on screen and his education begins!!
So, how to make a guy fall in love with you when you are about as significant on their radar as emptying the trash or walking the dog? Being Mr Perfect is one thing, but how do you convince him you are a worthwhile Mrs Perfect?
Understanding why guys hate to commit at your pace rather than theirs is a massive undertaking that women have been trying to master for years!! It always has, up until now, been a ridiculous learning curve and just when you think you have got it sussed, BANG!, off he goes into another world and you are left starting from scratch, again! (Do you ever feel this is intentional or a pre-programmed response?)
It used to be the case that guys felt like all the effort had to be made by them, they were out to impress. Maybe with the belief that one day they would pop that question, on one knee, and in the most romantic of situations. Nowadays most guys only tell you their feelings via a text message while they are at the game and you are at home wondering which apron to wear for dinner!
Unfortunately time has moved on and we are all a little lazier. Cohabiting in essence was a cool way to see whether a loving relationship would develop and move into something long term. For all of us however it was an idealistic opportunity to critique through experience and convince us maybe that this wasn’t the one. My parents went the old fashioned route, got married young and thrashed it out over time. I still to this day don’t know whether they are happy!
Common sense, and having a few good guy friends to interrogate, will dictate that it really doesn’t all come down to his attitude! It’s hugely important to remember that your entire situation dictates.
What sort of guy is he?
What social challenges do you come up against together?
How long have you been serious?
How long has HE been serious? (Sometimes there is a time lag!)
We have to get one thing straight off the oven mitt here! We do not want to get our guy to the jewellery store with his credit card, and commit through our deceit and evil planning! (Do we?)
In a perfect world we would all love our men to commit without drugs or threatening behaviour! Finding out what your guy’s mental markers for commitment really are is achievable, because we have brains and are damn sure prepared to use them, right?
How to make a guy fall in love with you – your answer
I used all available resources, a hidden treasure trove of tips and knowledge to help me answer the questions I was secretly asking myself every day for two years. It was only when I understood a little bit more about how guys think that I could deal with the issues on a level playing field. It’s a well-used saying but learning a different language to better communicate with guys is the fast track.
If it’s that important to you, as it was to me, you are going to have to do a little learning.
There are countless short cuts to figuring out men. Some are more effective than others and it’s always safe judgement to follow in the footsteps of thousands of women with their source of guidance. I was fortunate to borrow a friend’s resource she had on the subject with the dubious title of “Capture his Heart” (She’s now married with a young daughter; I’m a god parent yay!)
Despite a few fear inducing home truths (honestly, like two or three) I was basically blown away by the honesty and simplicity. To be honest I felt like I had set myself up for a battle I needn’t have after wading through the material. Hindsight hey?
Getting access to this product didn’t make my guy propose, I got my guy to propose, because I had a little help. And he’s happy about it!
The resource I am talking about is a product written by the very understanding Claire Casy and a guy called Michael Fiore. Now I’m not going to go with the usual flow and sing their praises, I can’t affect your opinions and neither should I try. I would however strongly suggest you go over here and listen to what they have to say about themselves.
Internal questions that I couldn’t answer were the one thing that bogged me down for nearly two years. After learning the four secrets to get my guy to commit I understood where I was going wrong. And more importantly I managed to change my mind-set a little, without any self-compromise!
How to make a guy fall in love with you – Click the image to watch the video
I know it’s late in some minds, I’m 39 years old; however I’m now engaged to be married!
God bless you for reading my little rant and I really wish you all luck and great prosperity in your search for those answers.
PS. I would love to hear your impending successes so please leave me a comment on here and also check out some of the other pages and advice on my little site.
How to make a guy fall in love with you. My Video – watch it here!